Normally, it takes a lot of effort to bring the person you want to have sex with into the room, so it's faster if you're in the room from the beginning. This logic is a factor that leads to incest with mothers and daughters, but the hurdles are even lower if it's a stranger's mature woman. Furthermore, a woman who is active and caring is not pushy and erotic, and this is the person you have no choice but to meet.
